Noni loved, one was that Noni just loved Barbie Dolls, and another love was that she loved when I called her " MY PRINCESS" so I bought this for my lady,
A Princess Barbie......the idea was that I was to give this Barbie doll to Noni when I arrived in KL, but these cowards saw that this would never happen, well I am still here, and I Love Nooraini will all my Heart and Soul.
At least these cowards can not stop me loving Noni, or change the past.
Princess I Love You and will love you always...
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Hello, I found your blog researching malaysia crime (wanted to move there...). Your story is very sad!
I tried to help research, and found someone named Cathy Fletcher also looking for this girl. Your name is Ian though? Do you know Cathy?
When did you last speak to/email Nooni? I see letters from 1999...of course, I want to help, but it's almost 20 years.
Can you not go during the daytime while the husband is at work and rescue her?
Anyway, I suggest you contact the DailyMail.co.uk with your story, make a gofundme etc.
Good luck!!
Hello, many thanks for your comments and interest for our blog,
Look I would just love to be able to rescue Noni, and nothing would please me more, but you are correct in that its been now a long time which also means that time its self has made it much harder,
For one thing, Noni now has children so I can understand that they must be Nonis priority not me, but I can say that I would still love and accept her children because they are a part of her.
But the second more worrying aspect is what we call here " Battered wife syndrome" a condition which means that Noni would now accept her life, its a kind of mental Brain washing. To which really there is little chance of escape.
In one of the last calls to me from my Princess, she told me that she had to change in order to survive. In other words these people were able to kill what little will power Noni had left, she had accepted her fate, so after 20 years her condition sadly would be concreted in.
However I keep this Blog alive just in case Noni dose want to contact me, and while I am not 100% sure my Princess knows about this Blog, her Spineless Cowards of a family dose, has I have links now all over the net, and yes, I still Love my Princess with all the power and force in me, I may have got older, but that dose not mean my love has gone, I feel Noni inside of me, and these cowards can never change that or chamge the past, they are horrible people....
Any-way two other points, the first is that "Cathy" is in fact Nonis Host parent, we both worked on helping Noni, but her host parent did not want to use her real name, which is understandable, yes my name is Ian and I am proud to be able to say it !!! If you ever need to e-mail me private, just clink the e-mail address on the profile page and I will be it.
Now I see you mention doing research work, now what I can tell you now is that we have found that Malaysia is very very corrupt. You see that after Noni was forced to marry against her will, she also found out that this man was also involved in a number of highly illegal activates, when Noni asked us to go to our government for help, the Malaysian authority's just did NOT want to know, you see the more power and money you have the more you can get away with doing illegal activity's, and we have here also Nonis brother who knows what went on, and knows of the Rape, Abuse and did Nothing, and he is a Police Officer ! what a joke, well the family are joke, cowards the lot of them...
Any-way thanks again, I am sure you will like Malaysia, I love Asia in general, the heat, food and people, they are not all bad !!
cheers
Ian..
Hello Ian my name is Tarsh,
I have read your account of what has taken place and I would like to make a comment or two, and I would also like to ask you a question or two as well.
First of all I would just like to say that you are truly a compassionate and loving person. The fact that you have not broken your promise to your lady in just fantastic, but the real evidence is what you stated in your last comment in that your lady now has children and that they must be your ladies first priority not you, tells me that you are truly love her and the fact so many men would have just "gone" means to me that the Love you both shared is True Love. A love that most people strive for but only a few will ever find or experience.
But I can tell you this Ian, don't be put off by the negative comments of her family saying that your lady would have forgotten you, because has a woman I can tell you that when a women finally gives herself to a man out of love, she will never ever forget that, because nothing this this man will do to her now will ever come close to the love you both have, and that's a proven fact.
Your lady will hide her feelings because has you stated, she has to in order to survive.
My question to you is have you been in contact with any other help groups in Malaysia ?
Also you are correct, corruption is bad in Malaysia, but you can use that your advantage, I know someone who works for a certain government department, and I know he can get extra information, please let me know what you think.
My heart goes out to you and Noni for what these people have done to you both, one day they will meet their maker, but they are really bad.
take good care.
Hello Tarsh, Many thanks for your comments and interest in our blog, look I would love to hear direct from you, can you please e-mail me via the link, and we can talk some more, Thank you.
Yes Tarsh we have been involved in a number of groups, both my self and Noni's host parents. One such group was the Sisters of Islam who were able to give us a wider understanding of the situation.
But I must say and make this clear is that I have no time or respect for both the parents or family. To me, I have more respect for Cockroaches' !
They told Noni Lies, all Lies about me, they told my ladie that my love for her would not last, yet look at me today, that I would not live in Malaysia because it is too hot !! Lies and Lies, and racist too.
While I can understand that at first they would have been concerned, Noni would always tell me that with Love and Understanding they would learn and see this unique love that the two of us shared.
But now we know better,
I would have Noni back today if I could.
So please e-mail me when you can and Happy to talk more.
Thanks
Ian.
Hello there, well thank you for your comments,
Over these past few years I have got to know a number of western men who have married Asian women, and you are quite correct that their children are really very beautiful, but I have also noted that these children seem to be also very intelligent, its just my observation,
They do very well at school, and get on with life.
But can you imagine what would have happened if I got their daughter pregnant, like on the up side my Princess would be here safe and well with me,
But thanks again for your time,
Have you been in Malaysia?
Thank you for your comment..
Sadly no, but I do spend a lot of time in Singapore which I consider my second home.
When my girl told her family about us, one of her brothers stated that we should not get married because I would not like the heat......that one simple comment tells me a lot about the narrow minded people we were dealing with. In fact if they had taken the time to get to know me they would have learnt that has a young boy I spent a lot of time in Singapore and I just love the heat. I have done a lot of traveling around the world and would rather be hot than cold any day....
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