My Princess told me that this man had two very different sides to his personality / character.
On the good side, if things were going HIS way then he would treat my girl well, which is of some comfort I guess, however Noni also told me of a very dark side to this man. She could sense something was wrong, very wrong with this man.
Noni started to explain,
He has got a very violent temper, one example of this is when Noni was in his house, the phone rang, Noni answered it, the voice sounded like a YOUNG girl, when my Princess questioned her ( Husband ) on who this YOUNG person was, he got so angry with Noni, he went to hit my girl while still holding the phone, but while he missed hitting Noni, smashed the phone to bits on the wall !!!
What a charming man indeed.
Noni also told me that he liked to have sex with girls, ( To be fair, Noni did not use the word children just the phrase " younger the better", and in fact later on it was while Noni was looking to get some evidence to support what she was finding out about this man that I lost contact with her.
But more about that later on.
When Noni went to "Visit" this man in his home in Malacca, my girl was not allowed out of the house, even to go to the shop. My Princess was kept confined to the house. Noni told me how much she hated this man, hated her life, and what her life had become.
Noni also believed that he had paid her parents to marry her, Noni often told me that her husband would state that you ( Noni ) was his property, and he would do with her what, and when he liked.
This e-mail from my Princess really sums up how she was feeling, but for me, one of the most frustrating things to deal with was the fact that no way would my girl give me his name, she was so scared of this man and what would happen to her. ( and her sister ) All Noni kept telling me was that he would kill her, she even told me that he had Friends in Auckland, and even that scared my Princess, every-way she turned seemed to end up with the same result, terrified, alone, and very very frightened young lady.
How while all this was going on I had been busy passing this information and anything else I could find out onto our local government officials here, ( more on this to come ) remember how Noni had asked for help from our government. Well the wheel of truth has started to turn.
The only information that Noni told me that this man was that he is Indian Malay, and called himself an Education Consultant !! it must mean teaching Young girls about sex !!!
But has long has we were both able to contact each other, there seemed to be hope for us both,
"HOPE and FAITH" too small words, with two big meanings, even now, that's all I have got left.
2 comments:
Hello my name is Madiah I am also from Kota Bharu but now live with my english husband in London. I feel so sorry for both of you, you really love your lady. I would like to contact you, send e-mail I might have some information you may need. Have you decided to write a book on this. You write very interesting, and sad life story.
Hi Madiah,
Sorry to take a while to reply back to you, just got back from Singapore. But please feel free to e-mail me, just clink on the e-mail link in my profile-I will look forward to receving your message.But without going into too much detail I did contact some time ago a lady by the name of Norma Khouri, ( when she came to NZ )this lady had written a book titled "Forbidden Love" which was very popular, however it turned out that this was not a true story or something like that, and the book was withdrawn, however Norma Khouri did give me some ideas but as of yet, no I just want to keep our story to this blog, but who knows what the future will hold, I have already had a number of private e-mails, some offering help. But again I have to be careful, not for me, but for Noni, as the last thing I want is to force her to do something agaist her will....
thanks
Ian
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